21 things that I’ve learned in 21 years

It’s my birthday today. YAAAAY. I’m 21

Learn to say NO without  need to explain yourself. You don’t have to, and you don’t have to explain why.

Don’t please people if you feel uncomfortable.  No matter how hard you try, it will never be good enough for some.

Life throws you into adulting without warning. Don’t be afraid. But it isn’t simple, so be prepared.

YOU can accomplish whatever you desire. Don’t underestimate yourself, 99% of people around you are going to do that for you anyways.

Not everyone is going to like you. And you aren’t going to like everyone. So just be polite and fight through.

Stop waiting for the change, make it. You don’t like the way your life goes? Make a change.

Say thank you and please. Be grateful, for everything, even the bad stuff in your life. And learn to ask for help if you need it. It’s better to look stupid for 5 minutes, than to be stupid for a lifetime.

There is beauty everywhere, notice it and you will live a happy life.

Some people in your life are blessing and others, come as a lesson. Don’t regret meeting anyone.

It is better to keep silent when angry.

Stop caring about what people think of you. They don’t know you.

It’s okay to make mistakes, you will learn faster that way.

Let go of toxic people and feelings in your life. You choose what you want in your life. If there is someone who makes you feel miserable every time you meet them, let go. If you feel hate towards someone, let go. It only breaks you, not them.

Make the most of every moment. Take chances, leave your comfort zone, spend time doing what you love.

It’s never too late for anything. You can choose a different path in your life everyday, don’t be afraid to do it.

Be kind anyway. Be kind to them even if they are mean. Seriously, you will feel better, and nothing makes them look more stupid.

Don’t be negative. No matter what happens, stay positive and keep your head up.

It’s okay to get lost and have no idea what to do with your life anymore.

You don’t have to fight for something, if you’ve lost interest in winning. It’s okay.

Your life is how you make it. No one is going to make your life perfect, that’s your job. Negative brings more negatives. So smile, fight and never give up!

Fairy tales are possible, and highly probable. Everything can end well, and it will.


Author: Maria

Hey there. I'm Maria my passions are Fashion, Traveling and Self Development.

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